Friday, June 30, 2017

Rest In Peace SingleNFabulous

What's Up Beautiful People!!!!

As I sit on the beautiful island of Anguilla reflecting on my life, where I am and where I want to be, I've come to the conclusion that my life is going in a new direction...and I'm okay with it. I'm definitely thankful for all my blessings and I'm so grateful to have been invited to attend an absolutely gorgeous wedding this weekend with my twin sister in the Eastern Caribbean. 

This relaxing and serene environment was the perfect opportunity for me to take the time to talk to my followers as I haven't posted a blog since the beginning of this year!
Unfortunately I've come to the sad conclusion that there is no longer a need for me to write this blog anymore (sad face) as I believe this phase of my life has passed, but it was definitely fun while it lasted! Thank you to all my Fabulous followers for being supportive and taking the time to read about my shenanigans! I hope you enjoyed reading about them as much as I enjoyed writing about them.
I may have retired the blog but Resheda hasn't changed one bit ... I will ALWAYS be Fabulous!!! Lol

What I'm hoping is that I won't always be SINGLE but that's not for me to decide...I leave that in God's hands. But what I want to focus on now is making decisions that are intentional and directly affect how I want to live my life.

Recently I've had multiple changes happen in my life and if you know me you know that I don't like "change", Lol. I like consistency and structure but life happens so I've been doing my best to adjust to these changes! To get my life back in order I made it a point to make my 2017 Vision board and created some serious goals that I look forward to accomplishing.

This vacation to Anguilla couldn't have come at a better time as I felt like my life was in disarray! I moved into my own apartment (no longer living with twin sister, it's bittersweet but it was time to separate) and now I'm living out of boxes and unpacking little by little. I was also dealing with maintenance people who have the worst communication EVER trying to fix things in my apartment and failing miserably to get the job done. A few weeks later my office space moves to a new location as well and now we need to unpack those boxes too! In addition, I was preparing to go on this trip to Anguilla. I felt so overwhelmed and had a lot going on so naturally adjusting to these transitions have been very stressful.

Right when I thought a weight had been lifted and I was going to relax of course one more thing had to happen to stress me out even more. Our first night in Anguilla the charging port on my phone decided it didn't want to work anymore and so now I have no phone on my vacation and of course I didn't bring a camera to use as back-up and I was so mad at myself for it. I was glad I had my iPad but it just wasn't the same, the device itself is too big and it's not convenient to use. So not being able to document this trip through the use of the camera on my phone was frustrating. Did I eventually relax and have a good time Yes! Can you tell I have some control issues, lol, that's my type C personality rearing its ugly head. In the end, we had a great trip and enjoyed every minute of it!

Well beautiful people, I didn't want to leave you guys hanging and so I at least wanted to let you know that this particular part of this journey for me has come to an end and to say farewell to my followers. In social work terms we call this "terminating" Lol. 

Please know that I will continue to go out and have fun in LA as that's just what us LA girls do!

Feel free to follow me on instagram @singlenfabla for any future shenanigans! But don't expect much to be posted on snapchat that thing is a pain in the ass! I don't have the patience for it and it takes up too much of my time to keep that thing updated.

But keep your eyes and ears open because you never know... I just might reinvent myself and come back to you in the near future!

The Adventures of SinglenFabulous signing off

Sunday, January 1, 2017

2017...Try to Take Over the World

Happy New Year Beautiful People,

I’ve missed you guys!

2016 has finally ended and it’s time to start the New Year off right!

I am happy to report that last year I downloaded the League and Bumble dating apps and have been doing my best to make a “connection” by swiping left and an occasional right, Lol. It isn’t as easy as it looks but I’ll keep you posted on how it goes.

As much as I love to go out and meet people organically it’s just been difficult trying to figure out where to mix & mingle in L.A.  Since I don’t discriminate and I am an equal opportunity dater (smile) I’m open to going almost anywhere!

I know the Lord has a plan for me but I'm just trying to help him/her out a little bit, Lol.

Thankfully I came across this web article from Timeout - The best bars for singles in L.A.  
My goal is to go to at least one of these bars every month and report back to you my success 😉 Bare with me people I’m trying to think positive and be proactive! 

I'm also on a mission to loose weight (a never ending battle with my bad eating habits) so I can't be at the bar every week! This time I have enlisted an accountability partner ... I downloaded the My Diet Coach app from my iPhone to help keep me on track. I'll let you know if it's any good.

I also plan on going Speed dating with some girl friends so I’ll let you know how that goes too!

My loyal Fab followers you will definitely be the first to know when I finally go out on a date!

Also on my list of things 2 do is create my new Vision Boards for 2017: topics will include developing and committing to a Healthy Lifestyle, becoming Spiritually Focused and exploring more Career opportunities that create residual income!

I’m on a mission peeps and this will be one of the most productive years yet!

Stay tuned... 

The Adventures of SingleNFabulous will continue in 2017